Since we put Christopher back in his bed he has been sleeping like normal. Even without his pacifier. I feel bad, but I guess he just needed his bed! It never crossed my mind that was the problem. But when you have company and he has the bigger room of the two kids, what do you do? Nap time I'm still working on. He falls asleep on the couch with me b/c he'd just play in his room if I don't. I transfer him after he's been asleep a while, but I'm not sure how much longer we need to do this. Brandon and I are very careful about having the kids rely on us to fall asleep and never put them in the bed with us b/c we don't want to create bad habits. Plus, we both need our sleep so bad that if we shared a bed with a kid it wouldn't be pretty.
We had Christopher's birthday party this weekend and it was so much fun! The Khans came in town Thursday night and the boys were too excited to sleep. They played all day on Friday and Grammie and Pop arrived later that afternoon. Mimi and Papa John came Saturday morning and it had been raining since we woke up. Thankfully it held off long enough for the party to happen and the kids had a great time! We grilled burgers that night at our house and the Ramages joined us and we finally called it a night after a round of pillow island. We played Sunday morning and then the Khans headed home. It was a great weekend and we'd do it all over again in a minute! Here are the "babes" having lunch together. They were so cute together! Joshua is precious and is always smiling and seeing what he can get into. Nothing intimidates him. It's really cute!
I had to do this...
Yes, that's true at our house. We gave up the pacifier like I said on Wednesday and it has been a nightmare since then!!!! The days that followed he has been kicking and screaming, refusing to take a nap in the afternoon. The only way I can get his to fall asleep is to make him lay on the couch with me and watch Mommy's show. He falls asleep within a few minutes, but wakes a little as I put him in his bed. He'll sleep for a least 2 hours or more so he's obviously tired. Now at night is even worse. He gone to bed at 9:00, then 10:00, then midnight, then 10:00 again. The last two days he never napped AT ALL. I know that giving up the pacifier was going to cause something like this, but I underestimated just how attached to it he really was. It was his ultimate comforter. It's so hard b/c the time changed this week and we had company coming in town for his b'day party and he's excited and has his friends and family around and lots of new toys and who would want to go to sleep? But seriously, he's got to crash eventually... right?? So, please, please pray for us. I really don't want him to give up his naps now. He's not ready for that and neither am I. As soon as we get past this I'm getting rid of Sophie's. We are not waiting this long ever again. I never wanted to in the beginning, but I definitely suggest that if your child has an attachment, start cutting back now and don't wait 3 years to cut it off. Trust me!!! If you do have encouraging tips, please pass them on!!! I'm desperate for help here.
I'm going to keep it short since I have a lot to show and I'm just waiting for Sophie to wake by the time I get the first photo picked out!Christopher opening a gift from Hunter and Drake. (It was a cute sand digging set, but this was the only photo that turned out of all 7 I took!)
Today's the day we are getting rid of Christopher's pacifier. I've been looking forward to this and dreading it at the same time. I've looked around for different ideas of how to go about handling it and hopefully it's the right one.
Last night he was still awake at 11:00 and came to get me, so he's not in the best mood today and kind of cranky, which is either going to work to my advantage or against it. I'm hoping he'll be so exhausted that he won't cry as long as I think he will. This morning we put them in an envelope (he starts to get teary) and wrote a letter to the Pacifairy to tell her to give them to a baby that needs them more than he does. And I've told him that doing this makes her so happy that she gives you a toy to say thank you. I bought a little cast iron backhoe, since his bigger plastic broke beyond repair and plan to stick it in the mailbox for him to find when he wakes up. Unfortunately he's not up for napping without and is playing trains in his room with the lights off. I'll let you know how it goes! Hey, if anything he'll just go to bed early tonight. Right???
Ok, I've been thinking about drapes since we moved in last May and I can't seem to figure out what fabric I want to go with. I tend to be a stripe girl, but I don't want stripes this time. And I don't want solid either. I'm trying to step out of basics b/c that's all I ever buy are basics and it's pretty boring. Here are two coordinating fabrics I found the other day (www.sirsfabric.com) and I love them!!! Aren't they fun??? They would work better in my kitchen b/c well, they are a little bright and cheery for a den/living room area. I'll try to post a photo of where I want them to go and some more fabrics choices. Money is also a factor now since we are really trying to follow our new budget. I need to save up for these and well, when you do that you want to make sure you love what you buy!
(Regal Mary - Fern)I have two wonderful things to share. The importance of both of them is great, but well, ok, one is bigger than the other. First of all, my sister and her husband found out yesterday morning that they are having a little girl!!! I am super dooper excited about this b/c she and Sophie will be close in age and have each other to play with. I was the first granddaughter after 5 boys and then another boy came before my sister did. So, family get-togethers were fun, but involved lots of dirt and playing sports. Neither of which I was going to get involved in while wearing my little skirts and dresses. (I was quite prissy back then.) I think Sophie is going to take more after my sister and be a little tomboy, but that's ok. She and Drake play well together, but he is a boy if I've ever seen one and needs to be able to play freely with the other boys and not have to play with Sophie. We are looking forward to July and meeting little Anne Morgan!!
Now, on to another girl I want to brag about, my sister-in-law, Caroline. She is awesome!! She saw my need for a recipe box and with children in tow, she met that need willingly. She told me that a bookstore called Davis Kidd (which I love and have only seen in Nashville) had some cute ones that I might like and that she would go and get one for me if I wanted. Well, through a morning of phone tag and lots of laughs we finally caught up with each other and she told me what the ones they had looked like and who would have thought they had the exact one I found online that I loved. Now, how many people do you know that are willing to go find something that another person needs and remind you, with child in tow, and mail it to them??? Not many. This is one a fraction of what makes her such a wonderful person and I am so grateful that my brother married her! Thanks Caroline!!

